Lately I’ve been reminiscing, as middle aged guys are prone to do, about my childhood. Guys, do you remember all the rites of passage we had to go through on the way to adulthood? Things like learning to ride a bike, or a skateboard. Remember the first time you did something as basic as climb over a chain-link fence or build a tree house? These were simple things, but they were important to us. One of the big challenges came when school let out for the summer. Backyard pools were uncovered and the local plunge opened for business. We couldn’t wait to hit the water and almost had to be pulled out of the pool by the ear when it was time to go in.
Learning to swim was something we all wanted to do. Some of us took lessons, but most of us just figured it out for ourselves. After swimming, learning to dive was the next great hurdle to overcome. Not jumping in feet first, any kindergartner could do that, but diving in head first. I remember one summer when I was about seven or eight. I was at the local public pool with several of my friends and classmates on a Saturday afternoon. Most of the boys my age were already confidently diving from the edge into the deep end. Some of the braver ones were diving from the low dive, and already eyeing the high board. I guess I was a little behind the curve that year because I hadn’t quite worked up the nerve to dive. A few of my friends were encouraging, which is to say taunting me, to dive in. They began to call out words of encouragement like “chicken! “and “you baby!” and “go back to kindergarten!” This gave me all the incentive I needed and in I went. And you know what? It wasn’t nearly as bad as I thought it would be. After the first couple of times, diving head first became second nature and something I enjoyed.
You know, the thing about diving is, it seems so difficult at first, and a little scary. But after you’ve done it, you realize how simple it really is. You really don’t have to do anything. You just stop holding yourself up. You just let go. It’s all about surrendering to gravity.
I recall one older boy, who was diving from the high dive for the first time. As he left the board, he panicked and started to flail around and he ended up doing a painful, though hilarious, belly-flop. You see, he had second thoughts and tried to save himself and just ended up making things worse. If he would have just given himself over to the force of gravity, he would have been fine. And you know, giving your life to God is like that. You must be willing to let go completely and rely totally on Him. If you struggle and try to keep some control for yourself, you will end up doing a spiritual belly-flop.
Here is an example of what I mean from the Gospel of Matthew;
And straightway Jesus constrained his disciples to get into a ship, and to go before him unto the other side, while he sent the multitudes away.
And when he had sent the multitudes away, he went up into a mountain apart to pray: and when the evening was come, he was there alone.
But the ship was now in the midst of the sea, tossed with waves: for the wind was contrary.
And in the fourth watch of the night Jesus went unto them, walking on the sea.
And when the disciples saw him walking on the sea, they were troubled, saying, It is a spirit; and they cried out for fear.
But straightway Jesus spake unto them, saying, Be of good cheer; it is I; be not afraid.
And Peter answered him and said, Lord, if it be thou, bid me come unto thee on the water.
And he said, Come. And when Peter was come down out of the ship, he walked on the water, to go to Jesus.
But when he saw the wind boisterous, he was afraid; and beginning to sink, he cried, saying, Lord, save me.
And immediately Jesus stretched forth his hand, and caught him, and said unto him, O thou of little faith, wherefore didst thou doubt?
And when they were come into the ship, the wind ceased.
Then they that were in the ship came and worshipped him, saying, Of a truth thou art the Son of God.
Matthew 14:22-33
Like so many of us, Peter was eager to jump in. But as soon as he looked around and saw his situation, his faith weakened, and he took his eyes off what kept him afloat. And when his faith faltered, he began to sink. And what did Jesus do? When Peter cried out to Him, He reached out and pulled Peter back up. This teaches us two things; first, it is okay to ask great things from God. It may seem presumptuous of Peter to ask to walk on water, but Jesus didn’t rebuke him for asking. Secondly, we must strive to keep our eyes always on Christ. Even, in fact especially when things seem darkest and the most out of control. When life’s storms threaten to pull us under, Christ will lift us up, if we let Him.
Our trust in Jesus Christ must be complete and it must be without thought or reservation. We can’t afford to hold anything back or to try to keep control over some things. If we start to think things through, if we stop to consider what we are doing, we risk losing sight of Christ and sinking below the waves. And Jesus will ask us “why did you doubt?” But even then, He will come to our rescue, just as He did to Peter’s. Always remember to look to God for all things, large and small. The Lord wants to protect and provide for His people. But we must be willing to trust Him.
5 Trust in the LORD with all thine heart; and lean not unto thine own understanding.
In all thy ways acknowledge him, and he shall direct thy paths.
Proverbs 3:5
Well, looks like the pool is open for business. Now, where did I put my swim trunks and floaties??
Randy Metcalf


